i firmle believe that trust is a lot more important than love in any relationship especially that of a husband-wife. my husband and i shared all about our past. and it was not an inquisitive inquiry. he always said that if any guy comes to me anyday and says "your wife and i were dating" he would happily smile and say "i know! your loss". we trust each other completely and that is one of the biggest reasons that we are so happy with each other. and honesty has helped us get there too !!